Clarification

I realized after yesterday's post, some may assume that either myself or both of us are baby hungry......so I should clarify something that several people have asked over the last month or so.

It seems that after the initial excitement of the engagement wore off, and the "Have you set a date?" question got boring, the next question on everybody's mind has been "Are you guys going to have a baby right away? or "How soon are going to have kids?".

While I'm glad everyone is excited for us to build a family, we also want to build a future for said family. So, to give an official statement and hopefully not have to answer that same question multiple times, or for those who may want to know, but have yet to ask.....

We do want children, we're not sure if we want 2 or 3. We would love to have our own home, and be as debt free as possible before bringing another being into this world. So we've decided that a year after the wedding we will start thinking about it, not trying but surveying our current situation at that time, then deciding if we are ready. Don't get me wrong, we want kids now, but logically, realistically and financially it's just not a good move for us, or for the child :)

Okay, I think that was enough clarification on the subject for now.